Spoon Theory
Spoon Theory is one that is used to explain just what it is that many people with chronic illness deal with on a daily basis. The infographic below explains it about the best and easiest way I have found. Anyone that can relate to this can call themselves a "Spoonie" in order to help others who understand the term relate to them.
I kind of use this myself but mostly with others who understand the term. To me it is about energy and my pool is kind of like a energy bank account that I spend from-if I deplete it then it's gone. If I go over my allotted spending then I have a deficit that I have to refill.
The problem I have with the Spoon Theory is that it also costs me energy to deal with things that are not listed here and that people do not often think of-things like the temperature fluctuating, lack of sun, dealing with bills or other paperwork (it takes me a week to recover from taxes!), not sleeping well, loud noise for any length of time, reading, writing, having to put on a happy face for others' benefit, etc etc. It all costs energy. It is as hard to explain as it is to understand really. On good days I am burned out by 7pm. On most days it is by 4pm.
I really wish I knew where this info graphic came from and who made it so I could give proper credit. I have found it in multiple places on the internet without that credit. If it is yours or you know where it came from, please let me know.
Hi fellow spoonie!
ReplyDeleteI have lupus, so I can relate a lot. I just found your blog and I like it a lot:)
I pray for an abundance of spoons for you this week! God bless you!<3
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